Is your relationship ready for a fresh challenge? Take this quiz to find out if it’s time to level up your connection and discover new ways to grow together.

How often do you surprise each other with something special?

A) All the time—spontaneous gifts, plans, and surprises!

B) Only on special occasions like birthdays or anniversaries

C) Occasionally, but we could do more of it

D) We don’t really surprise each other much

Do you discuss your relationship goals as a couple?

A) Yes, regularly—we’re always on the same page about our dreams!

B) Sometimes, but we could definitely talk about it more

C) We’ve had the conversation once or twice, but not in a while

D) No, we focus more on individual goals than shared ones

How do you handle disagreements?

A) We communicate openly and resolve things together right away

B) We talk it out eventually, but it might take a little time

C) We tend to avoid conflict or sweep things under the rug

D) We rarely argue, but when we do, it’s tough to work through

How often do you try new things together?

A) All the time! We’re constantly pushing ourselves to try new activities and experiences

B) Occasionally—we enjoy mixing things up, but don’t always prioritize it

C) We’re in a bit of a routine, but every once in a while, we try something new

D) We mostly stick to what we know and like, rarely trying new things

How well do you communicate about your needs and desires?

A) We’re open and honest about everything—it’s a big part of our relationship

B) We communicate well, but sometimes we hold back or don’t speak up right away

C) We talk about some things, but other topics are harder to bring up

D) We struggle with communication and sometimes don’t know how to express our needs

Do you prioritize each other’s emotional and physical needs?

A) Absolutely—we’re always checking in on each other, both emotionally and physically

B) We do our best, but sometimes life gets in the way

C) We try, but we’re both busy and often forget to check in

D) We could work on being more in tune with each other’s needs

How do you celebrate your relationship?

A) We love celebrating—date nights, special surprises, little tokens of appreciation

B) We celebrate on special occasions but could do more to celebrate the everyday moments

C) We don’t really celebrate much, it’s more about the big events

D) We don’t really celebrate our relationship, it feels a bit routine

How do you support each other’s individual growth?

A) We actively encourage each other’s passions, hobbies, and career goals

B) We support each other, but it’s something we could do more intentionally

C) We tend to focus on our own things, but we try to be there for each other

D) We struggle to give each other space for personal growth or pursuits

Results

If you mostly answered A’s: You’re Already Leveling Up!

You and your partner are already doing great things to nurture and grow your relationship. You communicate openly, surprise each other, and keep things fresh. Keep it up—you’re on the right track! But there’s always room for new adventures to make your bond even stronger.

If you mostly answered B’s: You’re on the Right Path—But There's Room to Grow

You and your partner are on a solid foundation, but there are some areas where you could take things to the next level. Whether it’s communication, trying new things, or celebrating more often, small changes can help elevate your relationship to new heights. Keep building and stay connected!

If you mostly answered C’s: It’s Time for a Relationship Refresh

It seems like you and your partner might be stuck in a bit of a routine. While your connection is strong, adding more surprises, deepening communication, and setting shared goals will help elevate your relationship. Consider tackling a new challenge together or setting aside intentional time to nurture your bond.

If you mostly answered D’s: Time to Level Up, Stat!

Your relationship might be feeling a little stagnant, and that’s okay! Relationships go through phases, but this is your chance to hit the reset button and level things up. Start by discussing your needs, trying new things, and setting relationship goals. It’s time to invest in each other and bring the spark back into your connection.