Your gut reactions say more than you think…

1. When your partner doesn’t text back right away, you...

A) Panic a little and overanalyze everything.
B) Do something fun and don’t stress it.
C) Feel a bit hurt but try not to show it.
D) Assume they’re probably fine and chill.
E) Feel disrespected and start mentally withdrawing.
F) Just note it and move on.
G) Worry about what you did wrong and start fixing it.
H) Get slightly irritated, but wait to bring it up constructively.
I) Redirect your energy into work or something productive.

2. In an argument, your instinct is to...

A) Spiral mentally and try to solve it fast.
B) Diffuse tension with humor or distraction.
C) Get overwhelmed by the emotions.
D) Avoid conflict unless it’s absolutely necessary.
E) Say what you really think—no filter.
F) Retreat and think about it for hours before responding.
G) Comfort the other person, even if you're upset too.
H) Stay calm, rational, and hold your ground.
I) Keep it short, fix the problem, and move forward.

3. Your ideal kind of love is...

A) Loyal, reliable, built on trust.
B) Fun, exciting, full of new experiences.
C) Deep, emotional, romantic.
D) Peaceful, stable, and easygoing.
E) Honest, intense, protective.
F) Low-pressure, mentally stimulating.
G) Warm, nurturing, emotionally connected.
H) Principled, committed, growth-oriented.
I) Supportive, ambitious, partnership-driven.

4. When you’re in love, you usually...

A) Get anxious and double-check everything.
B) Dive into the excitement but dodge heavy talks.
C) Fall hard and emotionally intertwine.
D) Settle into it peacefully.
E) Feel fiercely loyal but protective of your independence.
F) Show affection in subtle ways, not overly emotional.
G) Start caring more about their needs than yours.
H) Try to be the perfect partner.
I) Go all-in, but still prioritize your goals.

5. You feel most loved when...

A) You know you’re safe and can rely on them.
B) They keep things fun and fresh.
C) They “get” you on a soul level.
D) You feel calm, accepted, and unpressured.
E) They have your back and speak truthfully.
F) They respect your space and intellect.
G) They notice and appreciate everything you do.
H) They follow through and align with your values.
I) They support your dreams and show admiration.

6. Your relationship strength is...

A) Loyalty and consistency.
B) Making things exciting and light.
C) Emotional sensitivity and empathy.
D) Keeping the peace and grounding others.
E) Protection and fearless honesty.
F) Deep thinking and observation.
G) Being generous and attentive.
H) Responsibility and moral clarity.
I) Determination and goal-oriented love.

7. Your biggest challenge in love is...

A) Overthinking or self-doubt.
B) Escaping tough feelings or commitment.
C) Feeling too much or too intensely.
D) Avoiding confrontation.
E) Struggling with vulnerability.
F) Holding back emotionally.
G) Giving too much and losing yourself.
H) Being overly critical or rigid.
I) Focusing on achievement over connection.

8. Your communication style is...

A) Anxious but well-intentioned.
B) Upbeat and slightly avoidant.
C) Vulnerable and expressive.
D) Easygoing and non-confrontational.
E) Direct and passionate.
F) Thoughtful but reserved.
G) Supportive and emotionally tuned in.
H) Honest, structured, and constructive.
I) Efficient and solution-oriented.

9. You show love by...

A) Being reliable and always showing up.
B) Sharing new experiences and laughing together.
C) Expressing emotions and writing long texts.
D) Listening quietly and being consistent.
E) Protecting, providing, and being honest.
F) Offering insight, presence, and perspective.
G) Doing thoughtful things and anticipating needs.
H) Being loyal, organized, and principled.
I) Helping your partner thrive and chasing goals together.

✅ TALLY YOUR RESULTS:

Count how many times you selected each letter.
Your dominant letter = your Guess Type.

🧠 THE 9 GUESS TYPES (Enneagram Archetypes for Relationships)

A – The Loyal Strategist (Enneagram 6)

Overthinks everything but would do anything for their partner. Deeply loyal, always scanning for threats to the relationship. Craves reassurance, but gives consistency.
Strength: Loyalty.
Watch out for: Anxiety spirals.

B – The Free Spirit Lover (Enneagram 7)

Fun, flirty, and allergic to routine. Loves love—but only if it doesn’t feel like a cage. Charming, optimistic, and always planning the next adventure.
Strength: Playfulness.
Watch out for: Emotional avoidance.

C – The Deep Feelings Romantic (Enneagram 4)

Loves hard, hurts deeply, and seeks emotional intimacy above all. Needs to feel special, seen, and known.
Strength: Emotional depth.
Watch out for: Mood swings and over-attachment.

D – The Calm Connector (Enneagram 9)

Easygoing, supportive, and anti-drama. They won’t start a fight, but they’ll keep your relationship grounded. Sometimes avoids discomfort too much.
Strength: Peacefulness.
Watch out for: Emotional suppression.

E – The Protective Powerhouse (Enneagram 8)

Bold, direct, and fiercely loyal. Will defend your relationship with fire—but may struggle to soften.
Strength: Fierceness.
Watch out for: Control issues.

F – The Brainy Lover (Enneagram 5)

Private, observant, and emotionally cautious. Doesn’t say much, but notices everything. Values logic and independence.
Strength: Insight.
Watch out for: Withdrawing too much.

G – The Thoughtful Giver (Enneagram 2)

Loves to love and care. Generous, warm, and always asking if you’ve eaten. Needs to feel needed—but sometimes overextends.
Strength: Generosity.
Watch out for: Neglecting your own needs.

H – The Idealistic Devotee (Enneagram 1)

Committed, consistent, and does everything with purpose. Believes love should be principled, respectful, and honest.
Strength: Integrity.
Watch out for: Perfectionism and rigidity.

I – The Supportive Achiever (Enneagram 3)

Driven, successful, and always striving to be their best in love. Shows affection through effort and ambition.
Strength: Motivation.
Watch out for: Emotional bypassing or over-working.